Seven Oysters
Personal Essays & Reflections Kate Sjostrand Personal Essays & Reflections Kate Sjostrand

Seven Oysters

I spent the hours before proposing trying to understand why I was so fucking nervous when I already knew her answer. Then I stood in front of Dawna, trembling, said every word I'd been carrying for her, and asked her to marry me. She said yes. The oysters nearly didn't survive the occasion, but apparently even the universe wasn't going to fuck this one up.

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Forever

Forever

Sometimes the people who think they know your story know the least about it. While searching for what might become our forever home, an unexpected text dredged up old assumptions, old accusations, and old ghosts. Instead of reminding me of the past, though, it reminded me just how far Dawna and I have come, and how lucky I am to be building a future with the woman I love.

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Katelyn's Log, Earth Date 20260531

Katelyn's Log, Earth Date 20260531

This morning I found myself doing something I haven't done in a while: feeling nervous before a first meeting.

Not because I'm looking for "the one." Not because I've built some fantasy in my head. But because every now and then you meet someone who just clicks. Someone whose humor lands. Someone whose perspective makes sense. Someone who feels like they belong in your orbit, regardless of what comes next.

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